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13 Ways to Have Better Sex (and Get a Guaranteed Orgasm)

These mind-blowing sex tips will have you screaming O-h my god

by Jessica Amaris | COMMENT

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Sex is a funny and sometimes complicated thing. It's arguably one of life's greatest thrills, which perhaps explains why sex — the mind-blowing kind, anyway — can also be so damn elusive. Sometimes, everything's there but the chemistry. Other times, the flame fizzles and sex becomes a chore. At some point in our lives, we've all asked ourselves where the hell our hot, steamy sex life went — or, why has it never been there in the first place?

If you're struggling to orgasm or find that you're just not that into your lovemaking sessions these days, it's possible you're mentally checked out due to the ten million things going on around you, says Stanford Clinical Assistant Professor and OBGYN, Dr. Leah Millheiser. "[Women especially] are affected by the stress of kids, finance, work, school — you name it. So their libido goes down and sex is put on the back burner." Men, on the other hand, could be in the middle of a war zone and still be ready to jump your bones. "When men are stressed, sex is their way of coping," says Millheiser. Which might explain why post-fight or angry sex is hot to our male counterparts. Women are just a touch more complicated.

Whatever your reason for the lack of the big O, these tips will teach you how to tune in, get turned on, and increase the intensity of your orgasm. Here, how to have the best sex of your life — each and every time.

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