The other item you shouldn't own: a brush. Never give in to the urge to brush your hair, warns Harbinger. The hair shaft of curly hair has bends in it, making it more susceptible to breakage with every twist and turn. Dragging a brush through your curls, wet or dry, is a recipe for breakage, says Maria Mavostomos, Curls Marketing Director at Dippity Do Girls with Curls.

"This is especially true when it's wet, as this is when it's most fragile," explains Harbinger. Avoid stretching the hair in this fragile state in order to preserve elasticity and avoid frizz.

Instead, use your fingers in the shower to detangle your curly hair. "Doing this forces you to isolate the tangles so that you can gently loosen them without raking through them," says Harbinger. Or, use a wide-tooth comb in the shower while your hair is still soaked in conditioner.

Try: Ouidad Wide Tooth Comb, $8

To keep your curly hair texture at its most defined, avoid manipulating it, period. Touching your hair with your hands while it's drying breaks up your curl pattern, adding frizz and an unkempt wave.

The secret to styling your curls without creating frizz really depends on your curl type, says Harbinger.

Supercurly hair should be prepared with a styling product when wet, and then left alone.

Wavy hair, she says, doesn't frizz as much and typically needs extra coaxing for volume and definition. To give your waves more lift as they dry, use a curl cream and scrunch up your hair vigorously while it's damp. Then, avoid touching your hair at all costs until it's at least 75 percent dry, says Shorter. This will give you frizz-free volume all day.

For any type of curl pattern that falls flat while drying, try this trick: Section off the top portion of your hair just around the crown. Pull it back and clip it loosely with a jaw clip during the drying process. This will help give hair more volume once dry, she says.

Try: Aveda Be Curly Curl Enhancer, $24, or Pureology Curl Complete Uplifting Curl, $32.

From cleansing to styling, the best curly hair products should contain natural oils that nourish the hair with moisture, explains Harbinger. Because moisture affects the look, feel and texture of curly hair, your curls need moisture every step of the way.

After washing your hair with a cleansing conditioner, follow with a traditional conditioner, then rinse. Once you've lightly toweled off your hair (scrunch, don't rub, to avoid frizz), run a curl cream or other detangling product through your hair, working the it through with your fingers or a wide-tooth comb. Look for products that contain shea, jojoba or coconut oil.

Try: KinkyCurly Knot Today Leave In Conditioner/Detangler, $12, or KMS California Silk Sheen Leave In Conditioner, $19.

Just as a few key ingredients can enhance your curls, there are also ones that damage delicate strands.

Enemy No. 1: Silicones. Found in shampoos, conditioners and leave-on products like serums, silicones seal in shine and minimize frizziness. However, Harbinger says those positives come at a cost. "Silicones coat the outer layer of the hair, creating the illusion of shine, but in reality [they're] a moisture barrier, and therefore won't allow hydration to occur inside the cortex (center) of the hair," she explains. This can damage the health of your hair long-term. In general, steer clear of any product that ends in "-cone," "-conol," or "-siloxane." Instead, opt for the moisturizing curl creams with natural oils like coconut and shea.

Try: Jason Natural Apricot Keratin Hair Conditioner, $12, or Living Proof Satin Hair Serum, $29.

Your best curly-hair moments will come when you let your hair dry on its own. But we get that there are occasions where you don't want to show up with sopping-wet hair.

When you don't have time to air-dry, a diffuser attachment for your blow-dryer will make all the difference in how your hair looks (It's also incredibly inexpensive). A standard blow-dryer, according to Shorter, damages strands because it creates violent wind around the hair. This can lead to frizzy, tangled tresses. A diffuser disperses the air and focuses it around the curls. The unique shape of the attachment cups your coils as they dry, keeping your curl pattern intact.

Harbinger cautions against shaking or agitating the hair while blow-drying it. Instead, twist your curls into the shape you want while your hair is still damp, and then gently lift small sections of your curls, cupping them with a diffuser. Disturbing the curls as little as possible will give your hair maximum definition without frizz, explains Harbinger.

Try: T3 Bespoke Diffuser II, $30