Find a stylist who can help you figure out the best practice for you
While the Internet is great for endless inspiration, it can be tricky watching tons of videos and reading information and expecting it to work on your natural hair. Not to mention the endless trial and error of purchasing products just hoping they'll work.
"I think all knowledge is good knowledge, but it doesn't mean it's the right knowledge for you," says Sturdivant-Drew. "Go to a stylist, and have the stylist show you what to do with your own hair. I do that a lot with my clients because they don't know. It's not that they want to look like they just walked out of a salon every day, but they do want to look presentable so they ask me to show them what to do, and then they get the hang of it."
"I wish people could get off the internet to learn their own hair texture," Waajid adds. "Don't look at the girl in the video so much. Seek the advice of a professional with a great reputation. They can help you understand your hair."
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Keep your scalp clean
One of the things experts say will work against you is product buildup. Whether it's using tons of product trying to whip curls into shape or not cleansing properly when you do use shampoo, buildup on the scalp works against the length and strength of your strands. "Dirt from the hair can really clog your pores and cause damage to the scalp, and if the scalp isn't healthy the hair can't grow and be healthy so you have to keep the scalp clean," Waajid says.
Sturdivant-Drew agrees: "A lot of women do this, especially with natural hair. I feel like I see a lot of people keep piling products on and not shampooing (their hair) right. You see women with white buildup on the street and, girl, if I can see it, you can see it. So, yes, cleansing the scalp is essential." Use a good shampoo to cleanse the scalp weekly or bi-weekly depending on your curl needs, watch the product buildup (the right products mean less not more) and a good apple cider vinegar rinse, like dpHUE Apple Cider Vinegar Hair Rinse, $35, or a clarifying scalp treatment can work wonders for hair health.
Don't over-cleanse
In addition to keeping the urge to pile on the products at bay, you also want to make sure you don't overdo the shampooing. "Over-shampoooing can dry out your hair," Waajid says. "Straighter hair can shampoo hair every day with a good shampoo, but the curlier your hair is, the less often you should shampoo it." Waajid advises those with tighter curl patterns to shampoo once every other week with a nutrient-rich shampoo designed for curlier hair types, like Moroccanoil Moisture Repair Shampoo, $24.
Protective styles are great; over-manipulation of the scalp is not
One of the best ways things about natural hair is the endless possibilities for styling and protective styles are seductive for their ability to maintain hair integrity while creating a look. But just be mindful of your scalp with these styles because pain is not going to help you gain the length you inevitably want. "Some women twist or set their hair too tight, usually because they have different textures mixed in," Waajid says. "Some people have really tight curls, some people have a really kinky curl and they're not sure what to do so they either twist it or braid it too tightly, or they just neglect it, which is even worse."
Waajid suggests going to a professional who installs protective styles or weaves correctly (note: it's not supposed to hurt) and use sparing amounts of products designed for protective styles like Taliah Waajid Protective Styles Healthy Hair Under There Bamboo, Avocado And Peppermint Conditioning & Restoring Serum, $9.97. Also, protective styles have to be cleansed just like regular hair, so it's important to watch product buildup here as well.
Get regular haircuts
One of the things no one struggling to get some kind of length wants to hear is that they have to cut some of it off, but please know that carrying dead ends isn't really "length" and that skipping regular trims works against your goals.
"Unless you get rid of those dead ends, you're not going to grow length; you have to trim it," Sturdivant-Drew says. "Don't skip your trims: you should definitely have someone manage your ends every two to three months." You can also use a product like SheaMoisture Manuka Honey & Yogurt Hydrate + Repair Split End Balm, $9.99, if your ends are starting to look distressed — but know it's just a temporary fix. By the time you see them, it's time for a trim. Even a micro-trim will help, but the dead ends do have to go.
