Matthews looks at Kathryn's numbers in a different light. "You could invest that same $5,000 into something safe that might grow 8 percent a year for the next 40 years, and you can start building a nest egg," she says.
"For example, suppose she invested $5,000 in the simplest passive buy and hold portfolio of 60 percent U.S. stocks and 40 percent bonds," Matthews continues. "According to Vanguard, this has returned 8.9 percent annually over the period from 1926 to 2013. If we project this return forward over the next 40 years, she would end up with approximately $1.8 million for retirement."
Matthews concedes that investing in your appearance can lead to higher earnings. "There are studies that show the better you look, the [greater] chance you have of getting the job and earning a higher income. But there's no guarantee that spending that kind of money is going to land you the job. It's really more about striking that balance, and investing in your future is still investing in yourself."
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Where to Save
If Kathryn did her nails at home, she'd save about $2,270 dollars per year. If she switched from all-over hair color to low-maintenance balayage highlights, she'd save about $800 a year. All that saving adds up -- she'd save over $15,000 in five years, which would accrue even more money if she invested it.
Beauty Budget Breakdown: Stephanie spends about $1,970 a year on beauty -- she gets her nails done twice a month, which accounts for $80 of her monthly budget, a $20 monthly brow wax and a $50 hair cut once every three months. She buys high-end skin care and department store makeup.
Why: Stephanie isn't really willing to alter her beauty routine; she deems it conservative. "I don't dye my hair like a lot of people, so I think bimonthly manicures are okay," she says. "I really can't do my nails myself. They'd look like a three-year-old painted them."
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The Expert Advice
Stephanie is saving to buy a house, and Matthews says that beauty is a category in which you can find creative ways to save.
To help Stephanie remember her financial goal, Matthews suggests this technique: Close your eyes and imagine yourself in 30, 40 or 50 years. She says that studies have shown envisioning yourself as an older person can help to accept delaying gratification -- i.e., resisting those massage and scrub add-ons at the nail salon. "People start to think more concretely about the consequences of their present choices," Matthews explains. "And then they're more likely to make decisions that their future self doesn't regret."
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Where to Save
Stephanie says she won't budge on her manicures, but it might just be because she hasn't tried long-lasting nail appliques yet. (Several of our staff members swear by them.) Switching to thrice-monthly appliques would save her $600 a year.
Stephanie is diligent about her skin-care routine. She regularly uses:
Instead of shelling out $80 every few months for an acne treatment, Stephanie should look for similar products with the same active ingredients: benzoyl peroxide and salicylic acid. Neutrogena On-the-Spot Acne Treatment, $7.99; Dr. Lin Acne Spot Corrector, $7.49; and Biore Blemish Fighting Astringent, $5.99, contain the same active ingredients. Switching products could save her $178 a year.
Now for the makeup swaps. Product junkies know these as "makeup dupes" -- drugstore makeup look-alikes that mimic the department store goods. Stephanie's wallet would benefit from these swaps:
Making switches like these would save Stephanie an additional $150 a year, bringing her total savings to $928 annually.
There's nothing quite like the feeling of purchasing a new beauty product. In part, it's a gamble. (Will this lipstick shade work with your skin color?) It's also a way to improve or even redefine yourself. (New highlights will show your ex that you're a mysterious lady he never had a handle on anyway.) It's a thrill that never really gets old.
But beauty comes at a cost. If you're 11, that tube of lip gloss is worth an hour and a half of babysitting money. If you're interviewing for a new job, a spruce-up might cost a week's rent. If you're a brunette who's finally fulfilling her redheaded calling, it might add up to $200 every three months.
Where do you draw the line? We called in Wall Street veteran Jacqueline Ko Matthews and personal finance expert Farnossh Torabi, author of "When She Makes More," to provide some insight into what these four women's beauty buys really cost them.