Professional plus size model Christina Mendez says, "I remain body positive by embracing all of me from head to toe. Every person — no matter height, weight, or skin color — was born unique and you should be unapologetic about the skin you are in." When searching for a swimsuit, she says the No. 1 requirement is that the suit makes you feel amazing.
Essie Golden a fierce plus size model and lifestyle influencer and founder of Golden Confidence, a self-love community that has since become a true movement on social media. Essie and Golden Confidence "empower women of all shapes and sizes to share photos of themselves rocking any and everything that challenged society's beauty norms" with the hashtag #goldenconfidence.
Let's get real for a second. "It's not feasible to say that everyone remains body positive 100 percent of the time. There are going to be hours, days or weeks when it feels like you just can't do it. There is power in acknowledging the bad days," Natalie Drue tells Total Beauty.
What you can do on those days, says Drue, is look in the mirror and say, "Today isn't a good day, but I appreciate my body for breathing, walking, seeing and loving me through the hard times."
Like Ashley Graham, Robyn Lawley is a plus size model who's posed for the pages of the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue. She's also gone on to create her own swimwear line, saying, "I couldn't find any cool, supportive and well-made swimsuits in my size. (Aus 14-16. USA 10-12), which still to this day shocks me. Glad to see the fashion world slowly awakening from their slumber and being more and more inclusive of everyone."
Scarlett Hao is a body positive activist and influencer based in NYC. To remain confident in who you are, she says, "Stop comparing yourself with others. Everybody is beautiful in their own way. Learn beauty and style tips to make yourself the way you want to be — not the way other people tell you to be." And when it comes to finding the plus size swimsuit that shows off your curves, Hao says to try on suits that you may not be drawn to because you may be surprised by how gorgeous you look in them.
